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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-05-20 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3790 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3790 ⌋

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[personal profile] khandri 2017-05-21 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
I know this feeling, OP, although in my case, it was a different show/franchise. I often watched all the different Star Trek series with my dad in the '90s when I was a teen, but especially The Next Generation (we also saw some of the movies in the theater together). My dad passed away unexpectedly at the end of 2010. Mere weeks later when I was watching TNG on TV, there was an episode in which one of the characters talks about remembering her late father, and it just destroyed me in a way I didn't expect. For quite some time after, watching any episode of TNG was difficult because it was something we shared. I can deal with it better now, though, even if it still stings sometimes, because I know Dad wouldn't have wanted me to give up on something we shared just because he wasn't around anymore. (In fact, I've gotten back into Trek quite a bit in the past year especially, which brings to mind those happy memories from my teenage years, and I think he'd be happy to see me enjoying it so much again.)

TL;DR: It's going to hurt for a while, and the pain may never totally go away. But as long as you remember the good times and treasure those memories, time will help heal those wounds.