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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-05-30 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #3800 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3800 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Killing Stalking]


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[The 100, Echo and Bellamy]


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[Anne (the new remake of L.M. Montgomery's Anne of Green Gables)]


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[Pokémon ORAS]


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[Homestuck]


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[personal profile] soldatsasha 2017-05-31 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
There's a lot of straight guys who ship m/m. They just NEVER admit it un-anon. But go to any anonymous forum and they'll start crawling out of the woodwork.

Like, for example, a lot of straight guys romanced Dorian in Dragon Age: Inquisition, because they liked him better than the straight options, and you'd even see dudes on reddit and the various chans passing around Dorian/m!Inquisitor fanfic links and stuff. Same thing with SoRiku in Kingdom Hearts, Hannigram, etc.
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[personal profile] nightscale 2017-05-31 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
Huh.

This shouldn't really surprise me since I've met straight girls who liked f/f before, but I am kinda surprised by straight dudes into m/m, I guess because there's a bit more of a stigma around guys liking romance anyway but liking gay romance would be something I'd figure they'd not be into purely on the whole 'I'm not gay' front.

This isn't bad at all though, it's actually pretty interesting and nice to know that there are straight dudes who's reaction to m/m isn't some variant of being grossed out.

[personal profile] digitalghosts 2017-05-31 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, it is mostly due to stigma - both with romance and porn. Sure, some of it is pure preferences but the dissonance does not help - notice how in 'straight' porn some directors shoehorn girl on girl scenes? Gay porn never gets random surprise threesomes while lesbian one ... yep. However, in my home town it was common for teens to say 'lesbians are okay in porn or in threesomes lololol, gays are always gross'. Even if we disagree - we still grow up around that.

I had a friend who was as straight as they go even to the point of working in computer shop, playing drums, liking metal and having good relationship with his parents. He did like yaoi and slash, has a girlfriend (also straight). Point of it is - he is a crossdresser (yep, outed, has a blog) and one of best ones I seen (here I mean him being best in his own niche). Yep, his girlfriend knows and supports. Notice how silly it is of me to explain that as if not due to cultural weirdness, it would not be necessary.

Less 'extreme' examples are a youtuber who reviews yaoi and the dude who runs one of those weird manga blogs but he said so on the side when asked. Dragon Age (someone mentioned it below but in relation to game play) had few straight blokes writing slash fics. However, most dudes mention that if they know someone who is in some fandom as seen those as betas or just silent fans.

(Anonymous) 2017-05-31 06:46 pm (UTC)(link)
" a friend who was as straight as they go even to the point of working in computer shop, playing drums, liking metal and having good relationship with his parents." Aside from drums (sax) you are describing my bisexual son. In what world are any of those guaranteed "straight" markers?

[personal profile] digitalghosts 2017-05-31 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
In reality - of course they are not as you could be the most muscely dude who is a professional football player and loves car and is gay. I probably written it wrong as meant that stereotypes from our area say that such and such characteristics are straight. Then again, in same area, no one would suspect you of being gay. There is no set personality or attributes making one straight besides themselves saying so.