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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-06-09 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3810 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3810 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Marvel's Agents of SHIELD]


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05. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]



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06. [SPOILERS for Dragon Ball Z]



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07. [SPOILERS for The 100]



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08. [WARNING for discussion of rape]



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10. [WARNING for discussion of suicide]



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11. [WARNING for discussion of incest]













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Re: Are you putting off going to the doctor?

[personal profile] bur 2017-06-10 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
At my last physical my doctor pretty much looked me in the eyes and went, "You're 33. Suck it up, buttercup," and handed me a stack of OBGYN business cards with the one his daughter goes to circled.

Six months later, here I am still having not sucked it up. It's intimidating! No one's seen my lady parts before! Should I worry about vag maintenance beforehand? Is there some kind of protocol? I mean, I'm sure they don't want to have to wade through a jungle to find the important parts, but is it weird to trim the hedges the night before? Do you do it a week before so it doesn't seem like you tried to make your bits pretty for them? Why am I fixated on grooming when someone's going to shove cold metal where no one's been before!

Re: Are you putting off going to the doctor?

(Anonymous) 2017-06-10 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
This is how I'm feeling too! My friend told me to just think of my lady parts as any other body part (like the ears or mouth) and that the doctor has seen tons of vaginas, but no one's been anywhere near mine and the mere idea of shoving a metal clamp thing in there totally freaks me out. I'm weirdly modest too, so that adds an extra layer of insecurity to this whole thing.
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Re: Are you putting off going to the doctor?

[personal profile] tabaqui 2017-06-10 03:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Do your regular washing up before your appointment and don't worry about it. The simple fact that you cleaned up before going in will be nice, since people sometimes just don't care to do that (don't ask me why). And if you don't normally trim up, don't - they truly do not care, and it won't impact your visit at all.

The cold metal is actually warmed, usually - they're so much better about that than they used to be.

And if you say 'stop! i need a minute!' they will stop and give you a minute.
Good luck!