[ SECRET POST #3812 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3812 ⌋

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Comments

[thewakokid]

For me? More definitive language. "it feels" is a very personal and subjective term. It reads much more like "This is why I don't dig on it" and less "This is the way it is and therefore no-one should dig on it."

And come on, there's no need to be short with me. I'm usually on your side of this argument. And if I felt case warranted it, Id be on your side again.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Nah context matters.

"It feels racist and stereotyping when you say this."

Yeah, that person is saying "you should stop doing that because it sounds racist and stereotyping," not "I personally perceive that it's racist and stereotyping but that's okay because racism and stereotyping totes are subjective and you should continue on anyway and not mind me."

When has that ever happened.

[(Anonymous)]

SA as above

Now, if they had said "it feels like this when I do it or read this and this is why I am uncomfortable writing or reading this" that's fine and dandy and perfectly good reason for them to not engage in something that makes them uncomfortable. When they're saying it feels this way when others do it, they are implying everyone else should stop.

"I am uncomfortable" = personal feeling
"You all make others uncomfortable" = you should stop that

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Yup.