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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-06-11 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3812 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3812 ⌋

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Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

[personal profile] diet_poison 2017-06-12 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
I'm raising my eyebrows a bit at "blew up" and "unstable", since those weren't part of the story, but okay.

Anyway - I mean, I guess that's part of my boundary - if I've only known you for a couple of months, and I don't know you well (we weren't close and had only hung out a couple times outside class), I don't want you to be "affectionate" with me. That, to me, is really weird.

I've known a number of people who have trouble with boundaries in various ways - the nickname thing is one, but there are people who just act overly familiar with you almost right off the bat, give loads of unsolicited advice, call you "dear" (and I don't mean in a southern dialect kind of way), etc. I do not like those people and the times I've tried to be friends with them haven't ended well. I don't think that means they're bad people, but they aren't really platonically compatible with me.
Edited 2017-06-12 00:56 (UTC)