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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-06-12 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #3813 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3813 ⌋

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[Daredevil TV]


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[Wonder Woman (2017)]


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[Isabel Maru, Wonder Woman]


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[Sense8]


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[Schitt's Creekt]


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Re: Do straight people wear rainbow stuff/I have no gaydar, help

(Anonymous) 2017-06-13 04:20 am (UTC)(link)
Don't worry, I never want to be anywhere near your "spaces."

then what the fuck is your problem? you're telling me you are not a straight woman who feels entitled to come into GAY bars that are supposed to be safe spaces for GAY people to express their GAY sexuality, and throw tantrums over there being lesbians there who may ~gasp~ assume you are also GAY and flirt with you? if you are not one of those straight women and don't condone their behaviour, then once again, what the fuck is your problem? this is a very specific phenomenon i'm pissed off about, and if you're not one of the people who does this then i genuinely do not understand what your beef is, unless you just hate lesbians and are looking for an opportunity to be gross and homophobic.

now would you mind explaining how being irritated at straight women invading our bars makes us "just like straight men"? because i'm also stumped by that, ngl

Re: Do straight people wear rainbow stuff/I have no gaydar, help

(Anonymous) 2017-06-13 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, I'm sorry for how I responded to you. Your comment reminded me of lesbians who treated me badly, so I snapped. That's no excuse, and I wish I had left this thread alone. Your comment shouldn't have been enough for me to assume you're the same as the people I've been hurt by.

As for the rest, if you want to know. I'm not a straight woman and I've never been to a gay bar. I'm a bisexual woman and I've had it up to here with being hated by lesbians for not being one of them and daring to prefer certain men over them, because why would I ever prefer a man when I'm also capable of liking women? I compared lesbians to straight men because those are the only two groups who've expressed entitlement to me as a woman who could be interested in them. I'm trying to let go of my issues, and by starting this conversation with you I can tell I still have a long way to go.

Re: Do straight people wear rainbow stuff/I have no gaydar, help

(Anonymous) 2017-06-13 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
I've never been to a gay bar.

well that explains a lot. you've never encountered the creepy straight people who show up to gawk at the ~exotic homos~ but get super offended if you assume they're anything but straight. if you want some specific examples of what i'm talking about, here you go,

http://racheloddment.tumblr.com/post/159852371805/i-keep-thinking-about-that-straight-girls-in-gay

(yes, it's a tumblr link, yes, i know, we hate tumblr here on fandomsecrets)

because those are the only two groups who've expressed entitlement to me as a woman who could be interested in them

i'm sorry that you've experienced that.

Re: Do straight people wear rainbow stuff/I have no gaydar, help

(Anonymous) 2017-06-13 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks. I'm sorry about what's happened to you too and for saying you made it up.