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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-06-18 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #3819 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3819 ⌋

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Re: How do you tell if your being flirted with?

[personal profile] thewakokid 2017-06-18 09:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Nah, I got my girlfriend. Being able to flirt might be fun, but it's not a skill I need. Plus it's too much of a risk, what if what I think is "light, subtle, unobtrusive and genuinely fun and endearing" comes out wrong, or sounds threatening or creepy or misogynistic or uncomfortable? I been in that situation far too many times with non-flirty situation, I do NOT want to look sexually threatening.

No, I suppose the conclusion I'm coming to here was I had fun talking to people about games and anime, and regardless of what my girlfriend thinks, it doesn't matter if anyone found me attractive. I think I'm better off assuming as anon below puts it that no-one has ever or will ever want to flirt with me. Then I can't make myself look like a sexist animal.

Edit: That did not mean to sound like such a pity party, I simply mean, that I'm better playing safe, I cant lose nothing with that assumption.
Edited 2017-06-18 22:06 (UTC)