[ SECRET POST #3819 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3819 ⌋

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Comments

Re: confessions

[thewakokid]

Riiiight. ok. With you now, and I agree up to a point. That point being:

that gamer is a complicated concept, and that there are all sorts of invisible ways in which we define that identity. Being a gamer does not just mean that you play games - it means that you care about games in a certain way, that you care about certain games specifically, etc

Yes agreed.

those definitions seem to line up with a bunch of demographic markers. Like, the kind of games that gamers care about tend to be the games that are most directly marketed towards particular age groups and towards men and all the rest of that stuff.

Disagree on that one.

Perfect example, this last weekend, I spent about an hour talking to a complete stranger, a slightly younger woman of colour, about a game we both love FFXI which was written and market towards younger gamers with a fairly romance heavy series of sub plots. That lines up with none of my demographic markers. She lines up with almost none of my deomgraphic markers except she was dressed as a character from the game.

Or I can spent 20 seconds talking to a guy my age, my sex, my orientation about halo, where I bring up the deep story and lore, and all he talks about is his top kills or some shite, and realise I have nothing in common with him. Or not halo, I can actually give an example that has happened with a guy from work my exact age, all the same markers, and i want to talk about overwatch lore, but he can't even name a character.

Part of the reason I love the gaming community is because demographic markers, mean precisely dick all.

So I see what your saying, but honestly outside of the one thing we have in common, the choice to be a gamer, I don't see that identity has ever had a bearing on my experience in the community.

Re: confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I understand if you don't want to talk about this anymore, but I just want to make sure it's clear that the other part of my post doesn't depend on the first one. I do think there is a bit of underlying social structuring there, but maybe not as much as it might seem from the outside. But I also think it's still identity policing either way. And I think it's really easy for that kind of identity policing to turn into something malign.

Re: confessions

[thewakokid]

OH, hey, don't take it personally. I hope I'm not coming across too defensive. I see what your saying, I just don't see that as being something that's ever really cropped up in my gaming life, the identity stuff.

I could be wrong, I suppose but I don't think I am.

I certainly don't have anything against talking to you in this thread here. I feel you've been clear and respectful, and while I disagree, I don't feel particularly attacked or judged by anything you've said. and I do hope the same is true from your side.

That said, this whole thing has gone on for rather a long while, and its late and the whole topic can get a bit... tiring after a while, so I do hope you're ok to end this on an "Agree to differ" kinda thing?