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fandomsecrets2017-06-27 06:42 pm
[ SECRET POST #3828 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3828 ⌋
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Re: You asked. Here is your TL;DR response.
(Anonymous) 2017-06-28 01:40 am (UTC)(link)Sure, it makes sense. I just really don't think the letter is saying that. Or, if it is saying that, it's secondary - maybe the letter strays into that territory on occasion, but most of it is more reasonable and in line with the kind of genuine anxiety you reference.
And I think the general reaction to it at least on here basically takes the parts where it goes too far, amplifies those 1000x, and then acts like that's representative of the letter as a whole and Tumblr and fandom and the whole dang universe, and that's no good either.
Re: You asked. Here is your TL;DR response.
(Anonymous) 2017-06-28 04:40 am (UTC)(link)So I'm thinking and I'm not sure where my lines are drawn, but they're definitely well before the kind of statements that went into the letter because this behavior doesn't scan as anything resembling reasonable to me. That was a display of acting out by someone that is anticipating a hard time, that is kinda sensitized to this stuff, and has chosen to throw shit first. I am sympathetic to the feeling and experiences that likely lay behind it, I get it, but I still won't co-sign the action, it's still not right to me.
And I think the general reaction to it at least on here basically takes the parts where it goes too far, amplifies those 1000x, and then acts like that's representative of the letter as a whole and Tumblr and fandom and the whole dang universe, and that's no good either.
I don't think we're too far off of agreement on that one--that was basically what pissed me about it to begin with--the assumption that this was representative on the part of the OP, the letter writer, AND a good part of the rest of FS, when I strongly disagreed with it. I think it might be a good jumping off place for someone to express the idea in a manner that isn't so
completely warped by anxietyover-the-top and controlling, though.This conversation though, this was reasonable. I know I've babbled on for a while. Thanks for hearing me out, Anon.