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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-07-21 06:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #3852 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3852 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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03. http://i.imgur.com/4sW0XLi.jpg
[Mary Elizabeth Winstead in Fargo, season 3 - linked/OP warned for nudity]


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04. [SPOILERS for Fargo]



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05. [WARNING for discussion of abortion]



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06. [WARNING for physical and psychological abuse]



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07. [WARNING for incest]



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08. [WARNING for dub con/non con]

[Jafar/Jasmine, Aladdin]












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[personal profile] lordbaelish 2017-07-22 10:13 am (UTC)(link)
Late to the party, but I hope you realize the irony in pretending to defend women's rights by policing what they can or can't think about. In their fantasies, none other.

The relationship between fantasy and real life behavior is complicated, yes, but dubcon fantasies are within the realm of normal human experience (I have refs if you want the). What you are saying is the same as "a woman should not have a bdsm relationship with a man because it perpetuates oppressive social dynamics". Of course, policing what women do in bed is the solution, not educating everyone as to how Fantasy is powerful tool to safely explore scenarios which are not a good idea IRL, and as to WHY they are not a good idea IRL.

I don't know, I think telling everyone that they subconsciously hate themselves for having dubcon fantasies is incredibly shallow and helps no one?

(Anonymous) 2017-07-22 10:45 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not defending women's rights, I never claimed or even pretended to be doing so. I've been speaking entirely for myself. I still think less of the women who get off to this shit and assume they do suffer from some self loathing, there's no way they wouldn't be. Getting aroused at being told you're nothing but a worthless fuckhole while getting raped is just fucked up. And I will always be frustrated that I'm forever lumped into that same mold by virtue of being a woman.
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[personal profile] lordbaelish 2017-07-22 06:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, sorry then. Since you were talking about collectives, I mistook your point as a political view.

Do you apply this literally also with other forms of kink and violence in fiction? Say, when somebody writes a violent story, do you think that translates into a repressed wish for violence automatically? Or do you think that someone with a femdom kink secretly hates men?

I obviously disagree with your point of view, but I don't mean to troll or flame you - I just mean to understand where you're coming from. For what it's worth, I hardly think that anybody fantasizing about rape focuses on the psychological and physically damage that would come with rape IRL. That's the thing about fantasy, it's safe, it goes exactly as you want.