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fandomsecrets2017-07-28 07:03 pm
[ SECRET POST #3859 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3859 ⌋
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[Twin Peaks Season 3]
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[Marco Polo, warning for (TV) nudity/sex]
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05. [WARNING for discussion of self-harm]

[American Gods (Starz)]
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06. [WARNING for discussion of incest]

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07. [WARNING for discussion of abuse, sexual assault]

(Dumbing of Age, Billie and Ruth)
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(Anonymous) 2017-07-29 12:15 am (UTC)(link)no subject
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(Anonymous) 2017-07-29 02:44 am (UTC)(link)It's not - speaking in the interests of people learning to be kinder - a term I find thoroughly useful. Because I don't think the people who are the worst, the ones that sound like they wandered out of 1984, quite see it that way.
Because, well, I've been that angry before? (Christ, I was a stressed out teen and young adult.) And when I was like that, that judgemental, spiralling into the anger like a bad case of depression and as short-sighted - I didn't think of it as using in-group terms or language policing. I was just that angry, that every little detail was something I zeroed in on and got angrier by, every action people took I just naturally assumed was done in the worst possible faith. And someone telling me I was doing this to fit in with a peer group would just have made me angrier, because I would not have considered it true - it would just have felt like another attack. And it wouldn't have encouraged me to stop.
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(Anonymous) 2017-07-29 02:53 am (UTC)(link)this is demonstrably not the case