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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-08-01 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3863 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3863 ⌋

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[Alex James from Blur]


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[Night Court]


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[Top: Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, Chris Pratt
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[Stephen Fry and Elliott Spencer]


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[Anna Faris and Chris Pratt in Mom, S04E11 "Good Karma and the Big Weird"]


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Re: When do you judge age gaps in adult relationships?

(Anonymous) 2017-08-01 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess I start to feel weird about it when the gap is more than 15 years, since we're talking different generations in practical terms and the two people grew up in different worlds.

I was going to say gender was irrelevant, but I think actually it's only the gender of the younger party that is irrelevant. If the older person is a woman, I'm less likely to side-eye than if it's a man. My knee-jerk reaction is that an older woman is lucky someone of any age wanted to be with her, so there must be something special there, but the older man is just seeking out younger partners on purpose and is kind of a loser. Not fair, but that's secretly where my mind will go.

I don't actually say any of this out loud, not even to third parties (unless someone else brings it up).