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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-08-01 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3863 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3863 ⌋

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[Alex James from Blur]


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[Night Court]


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[Top: Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, Chris Pratt
Bottom: Dave Bautista, Josh Brolin]


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[Stephen Fry and Elliott Spencer]


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[Anna Faris and Chris Pratt in Mom, S04E11 "Good Karma and the Big Weird"]


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Re: When do you judge age gaps in adult relationships?

[personal profile] thewakokid 2017-08-02 06:52 am (UTC)(link)
Ok, this is where I fuel the speculation that I'm Lesbian Futerist. I do immediatly cringe as old man young woman ships. I can't help but instinctively feel like that is an evil man taking advantage of a girl. I don't feel that way about Older lady young man / young woman, or older man younger man. It's exclusively Older man younger woman that feels like someone is being a victim, which is bullshit of course.

I know this is profoundly incorrect, and I do try to not give in to that reaction, but yeah, I totally have this gut reaction.

I think it's because for all my years being red pilled, all the various shit women have done to me, all the many examples I've seen of women being donright criminal, I never really got to stop thinking on some level about men as violent aggressors. That little voice "We're evil and everyone can see it" never goes away, I guess.

The actual size of the age gap is no issue to me, tho. If a 75 year old and a 16 year old want to fuck, it never hits me as any worse than a 20 year old and a 40 tear old.
Edited 2017-08-02 06:58 (UTC)