I'd find the accusations of "pedophilia" in fandom funnier if they didn't come with the threat of being ostracized and/or doxxed if you piss off the wrong person.

I'm all for people hating on underage pairings or pairings with large age gaps if they want to hate-- I can't stop them. Hell I hate on some of those pairings myself. It's the bizarre jump between fiction and reality that is scary.