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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-08-21 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #3883 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3883 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-21 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sure there are evil gen xers who feel the same. :P

I thought their flaws made them fun.

(Anonymous) 2017-08-21 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Some of their flaws definitely did. Some of them definitely did not (for me at least). Monica being a control freak, or Phoebe being a space cadet, things like that are funny in the show even if they wouldn't be in real life. Ross being entitled and awful about relationships reallllllly is not.

(Anonymous) 2017-08-21 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
And you felt like the writers wanted us to sympathize with his entitlement? This is a really interesting perspective.

(Anonymous) 2017-08-21 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
It's always tricky to talk about intent. That said, I think the writers viewed him as a flawed but basically sympathetic and likable romantic protagonist, and I can't really come around to the "basically sympathetic" part. And I think, if they understood some of his characteristics as flaws, it wasn't necessarily in the same way in which I understand them as flaws.

(Anonymous) 2017-08-21 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, I did not get that from Ross at all! If he was sympathetic, it was because he was pathetic, and all the other characters on the show thought he was a loser, which rendered him rather innocuous.

(Anonymous) 2017-08-21 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
It kind of feels to me like the other characters thought he was a loser, not because he was doing anything "wrong", but because he just happened to be unsuccessful and unlucky. And I think that's a meaningful distinction.

However disclaimer, I haven't watched through the show recently enough to be completely au fait with episode-to-episode close readings or anything, and that's probably what would be necessary to make this point in a useful and consistent way.

(Anonymous) 2017-08-22 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
They made Ross/Rachel endgame. That certainly implies that they didn't think of his flaws as being all that bad.

That being said, I didn't watch more than the occasional episode of friends because they all annoyed me to one degree or another.

(Anonymous) 2017-08-22 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
I feel like a lot of the seasons plots boil down to one of the friends doing a wrong thing that is an obviously wrong and jerkish thing to do, but you are still supposed to root for them because they're the main characters, so they're always right