[ SECRET POST #3885 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3885 ⌋

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[syncing_feeling]

Thank you. I think what trips him up is that it doesn't even have to be sexual intimacy, even those sort of eye contact, nose-to-nose cuddles can make my skin crawl and just make me want to shove him away, and he can't understand why. My assaulter actually came into my work the other week and since then it's been on my mind a lot and I just don't even want a hug right now.

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I'm sorry if this is too personal a question, and feel free to not answer, but have you been seeing anyone on your own about what happened to you? I can only speak from personal experience, but I know that when my ability/desire to be intimate (sexually or otherwise, like you've said), that was in and of itself emotionally distressing for me. Finding a good therapist helped me IMMENSELY.

[syncing_feeling]

Not too personal at all. I was in counselling a few years ago but that was more for general depression/anxiety issues. It did come up but we never went too in depth and I stopped my sessions when I 'thought I was okay.' Regretting it a bit now. :/ I don't really have anyone else to talk to about it right now. Most of the people I told at the time either laughed it off or said that they knew the guy was a creeper and I shouldn't have got with him in the first place.

Me and my dad are super close and I accidentally (drunkenly) blurted it out to him a few months back, but I really don't want to bring it up with him again because of how upset/frustrated he gets over it (it happened in the flat just above his) I will look into counselling again now though, I think. Thank you. x