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⌈ Secret Post #3887 ⌋

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Some people consider a partner going to strip clubs borderline cheating, some aren't comfortable with the commodification of women's bodies and sexuality, some are too well acquainted with the seedier side of the business to want to support it. In none of those cases would it really help to demand the person go to strip clubs, especially when the actual underlying relationship issue is that strip clubs are a personal boundary they've already communicated to their partner, who doesn't care. Telling someone they aren't allowed to have boundaries or expect their partner to respect those boundaries is some unhelpful bullshit no matter what the boundaries are. The specificness of "strip club" is tbh only a side detail.

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