[ SECRET POST #3887 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3887 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Bad advice you've seen people give?

[(Anonymous)]

Pretty sure the point was that "grossed out", hostile girlfriends coming to strip clubs with their boyfriends aren't a great idea. Your assertion that strippers won't mind is predicated on the assumption that the girlfriend will be cool with it or open minded enough to reserve judgment. That is clearly not the case in the situation greghousesgf is describing.

Re: Bad advice you've seen people give?

[(Anonymous)]

It sounds like the GF wanted her BF to stop going to strip clubs. Meanwhile, the BF wanted to keep going to strip clubs. If neither of them was budging, then they were at a deadlock. I'm not really sure what better advice anyone could have given them. Having the GF go along to see what it was all about seems like a good initial course of action. Maybe she'd feel better about her BF going after she saw what it was like, or maybe she wouldn't feel better at all, but it's a course of action that could potentially break their deadlock.

If she went once, and afterwards felt just as bad about her BF going, then I suppose they'd have to find some sort of compromise. But it doesn't seem smart for them to settle on a compromise neither finds ideal, without first making sure the GF has an accurate idea of what she finds objectionable in the first place.

Re: Bad advice you've seen people give?

[(Anonymous)]

If the girlfriend misbehaves at the club, there are bouncers for that.

I agree with above anon -- if person A wants to do a thing and person B is against that thing, there isn't much in the way of advice you can give other than persuading one of them to give the other person's perspective a try and to go from there. What else could you tell them? (Probably the FS classic reply of 'just break up'.)