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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-08-31 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3893 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3893 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Valkyrie]


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[Joss Whedon and ex-wife Kai Cole]


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[Alyson Hannigan, "Fool Us"]


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[Wolfenstein: The New Order]


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[Anne, the new Anne of Green Gables reboot miniseries]













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(Anonymous) 2017-09-01 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
^ This. Cheating is about honesty and your communication - if you attend orgies and speak about protection options and how to deal with other people, it is grand. Same as is having poly relations with your partner being mono on their side - if you discussed it and communicate about it.

This director though? Spoken as if he had been an authority on women's relationships thus his ex wife saying something else and still pretty much managing to duplicate his sentiments (yeah, he did always sound same to me as in quotes she provided). If you shove your way into any idealogical minority group you are not welcome in and fail - expect repercussions.

Then there is an issue of people generally being very uninformed about STIs and STDs - you can easily acquire some by sharing toilets (even if you take precautions). Oh yes, I got one as a teenager (who never was with anyone) and it had been due to my mother's partners BUT - she was advised by her doctor when she found out and said doctor asked me to get tested and then also provided medication.

Even if I somehow cheated on my husband and even if I was certain that other people were fine - they might not be or know, nor I really would have known about myself either. Relationships are just that - no matter how many people in it - something might bugger and you need to be prepared for that.