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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-09-21 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3914 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3914 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Smallville]


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[Riley, Julie's Greenroom]


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[Anne with an E]


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[Bojack Horseman]


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[Jeeves and Wooster, P.G. Wodehouse]











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Re: Everyone's nonbinary?

(Anonymous) 2017-09-21 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Of course people's likes and dislikes aren't going to always fit perfectly into their stereotypical gendered mold and this should not be a revelation because concepts of gendered behavior are all culturally relative, anyway. Pink for girls and blue for boys is not some universal rule that has always been true everywhere in the world (someone once told me that it was the reverse in Victorian society, for example). That doesn't mean it's all meaningless, because we all grow up in a society that expects certain behaviors from us and we may take into account how we feel about those expectations when exploring our gender identity, but how well we fit into those expectations of behavior does not, in itself, determine gender identity.

Saying "Everyone is non-binary!" sounds to me like saying "Racial divisions are stupid! We ALL come from Africa originally, amiright?" because it just dismisses a lot of real shit that many people actually have to deal with in their lives.