[ SECRET POST #3914 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3914 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Smallville]


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[Riley, Julie's Greenroom]


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[Anne with an E]


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[Bojack Horseman]


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[Jeeves and Wooster, P.G. Wodehouse]











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Comments

Re: Everyone's nonbinary?

[(Anonymous)]

just about everyone I know who identifies as nonbinary or genderqueer has tried for years to work out an internalized sense of wrongness within a liberal gender "men/women can do that too."

This really resonates with me. When I grew up, in the 80s, I worried that the fact that sometimes I felt like a guy, to the point that my body felt physically wrong, meant that I was not just sick, crazy, a freak, and wrong, but also betraying my fellow women and feminism as a whole.

The funny thing is, my interests actually fit fairly well within the generally accepted range of "geek girl" interests. It's not my distance from the gender roles that make me genderfluid, it's the fact that I sometimes wake up to discover that my brain has randomly decided that I'm a dude, and is really not happy that my body doesn't match its expectations.

Learning -- at 39 -- that gender fluidity was an actual thing that existed, made my life suddenly make sense in a way that it hadn't, before. I wasn't just a lone freak, there were other people who had the same experience. Being able to put a name to my experiences is powerful, and I really wish I'd found out about all this stuff when I was a miserable teenager.