[ SECRET POST #3953 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3953 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT, but I think the current generation of parents has the mindset of "I want my child to have the childhood I always wanted" and as a result, that means "My kid can get away with anything, because that's how I wanted my childhood to be."

Somewhat-related note, I used to work in a preschool as an assistant where there was one boy who would openly tell me "I don't like you, stop looking at me, go away, don't talk to me, you're not supposed to [insert part of my job here]" every single day. He would bully the other kids (the two youngest and shyest in particular; he was nearing 5 and they were only 3), and would get away with so much shit because mommy and daddy paid for M-F all-day care plus afterschool care. The teachers would victim-blame the little ones ("they need to pay more attention to their surroundings, they should have given him [toy], they didn't NEED to play at that station") because their family only sent them to school two afternoons a week. This kid got the right to act like a brat because his parents paid more than the others. It was awful being around him, and when the teachers told me at a review that I needed to focus more on him and not the smaller kids (I did so because the teachers weren't), I ended up quitting. I felt awful leaving the weaker kids all alone, but there was no way to discipline the brat (not even positive reinforcement worked with him) and there was no way he would have gotten "kicked out."

On a side note, the two littlest kids were being raised by grandparents. They were considered "difficult" because they had not been taught how to color, use scissors, glue objects, etc., and they needed to be taught how (again, they were 3). They were very mindful, but the teachers would scold them for being "antisocial" (when they were tired or homesick, they wanted to be left alone and just play with puzzles or draw pictures). I even got reprimanded once for allowing them to color instead of forcing them to play with the others.

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Good lord, what the hell???? What kind of adult would condone this shit?