I don't personally use any slurs even in a reclaiming context for groups I'm part of, except in rare cases. But I have seen some gay men identify as "faggot," and that's fine. That's reclaiming. Calling a feminine gay man "faggot" as an insult, however, is not, and not okay in my book no matter who uses it.

But seriously, the responses here as a whole are so depressing.