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Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?
(Anonymous) 2017-11-11 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)I mostly get this from people I've just met, especially when they have been drinking. Having bigger than average boobs on an otherwise small body, I get a lot of people, men and women, asking if they're real/can I touch/what size etc. Sometimes they don't say anything and just go in for a grope. Women are more likely to say uncomfortable things and compare their own body to mine. As soon as I step into a women's bathroom or I'm with a group of people and the men leave to smoke or whatever it's like petting time at the goddamn zoo. I also have my skin felt, my hair stroked, my waist grabbed at.
I am smaller than most and I was bullied physically by other girls when I was younger so I hate other people touching me. Women aren't "safe" to me. I don't feel comfortable around strangers without my physical boundaries being respected.
Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?
(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 12:10 am (UTC)(link)Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?
(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 12:33 am (UTC)(link)If you have a problem with being groped, you're just not fun! You need to loosen up!
- seems to be the attitude of most people here.
Where do you live so I can move there?
Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?
(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 02:12 am (UTC)(link)Come on up, we don't have a ton of room but there's still places to go.
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Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?
(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 05:39 am (UTC)(link)Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?
(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 05:58 am (UTC)(link)Omg. Not funny or cute just because you're a woman, random gropers!
I tend to freeze completely when people do this. When I get my voice back from the silent WHAAAAT moment I do speak up, but I haven't done anything badass.
For a second there I was imagining a super elastic boob because you said she grabbed it and took off running. Like she was still holding it and running. I need sleep.
Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?
(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 03:56 am (UTC)(link)Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?
(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 06:20 am (UTC)(link)