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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-11-11 03:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #3965 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3965 ⌋

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Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

When people (especially men) say these things, they're not trying to pressure you to not wear makeup at all--and they usually respond with shock and disgust if you respond to them by going without any makeup. When men say they like women who don't wear makeup, they mean they like "no makeup" makeup looks. They never point out an average woman who isn't wearing any makeup to illustrate their point, and in fact often mock such women for being "ugly".

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
Different anon—and sometimes it's not even that men who say this shit like women who wear “natural looking” makeup, they want women who look like airbrushed, photoshopped supermodels without wearing any makeup, which, well, you can’t photoshop your actual face, only pictures.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
The first sentence comes from guys the most. The examples in the second? Come mostly from other women.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

(Anonymous) 2017-11-12 02:19 pm (UTC)(link)
This contradicts nothing in my comment.