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⌈ Secret Post #538 ⌋

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I'm going to jump in on this one -- it's because there's a difference between the public sector and the private sector. My private life doesn't up and vanish when I go out in public, it's true -- but I also don't flaunt things that I know might make other people uncomfortable. Sex, in our society, whether you're a prude or not, is a very private and intimate activity. Watching porn is fine, but it's something you do in private, not something you carry around to stores and restaurants with you. There are some things you leave at the door when you go out into the world for the sake of propriety as a member of society.

It's not just fandom. I feel the same way about people with shirts that have sexual or vulgar slogans. I even think wearing shirts with a marijuana leaf is a bad idea -- not because OMG DRUGS!!!!!, but because it's a factor of your private life, and there's a difference between what is appropriate in private and what's appropriate in the public realm. I don't behave in stores how I behave around my closest friends and family, and I don't talk about my hobbies at work, no matter how innocuous they are. It's basically the same principle.

This becomes a matter of preference, then. Me, personally, I would only apply my personal standards to myself. I don't wear what I consider to be in bad taste, but then I don't expect other people to censor themselves on account of my delicate feelings. Sure, there is a line you shouldn't cross -- but where does one draw that line? Porn is neither illegal nor even very unusual; I would raise an eyebrow if the bag had actual porn printed on it, but just a vague, non-explicit mention? Since when did a non-expletive word gain so much power to freak and offend?

Are we really to say that the very implication that, gasp, people not only know of pornography but might actually enjoy it, should bother us? Are we afraid of porn? And let's remember, no one is in fact bringing porn into the public eye. A bag with a slogan is not exactly the same thing as a nudie mag. Porn consumption is still very much a private activity. All that a slogan stands for is just this: a bit of risque humor, and maybe, if you really want to stretch it, a reminder that, you know, this stuff exists. And people take the mickey out of it. To me, with shit that doesn't matter, I would just let it slide.

Edited 2008-06-27 03:47 (UTC)

"I would only apply my personal standards to myself... I don't expect people to censor themselves on account of my delicate feelings."

THIS

"Are we afraid of porn?"

Yes, this society is afraid of porn, full stop. The whole ZOMG SOMEONE MIGHT NOT BE ASHAMED OF SEX thing, ya know. Anyone who enjoys it, or porn, is a fat hairy pervert who lives in his mother's basement with a shrine to George Clooney, didn't you know?

tl;dr I agree 1,000% with this comment. The whole, "I think it's disgusting so it shouldn't be allowed" thing has to fucking stop. :|

Not to mention the fact that just because a word/image/concept appears on someone's person doesn't necessarily mean they're obsessed with it. Sometimes, a funny bag is just a funny bag. Reading too much into something and then judging a complete stranger for it, I don't get that.

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