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⌈ Secret Post #3984 ⌋

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If not, do you want some?

No, and no. I've thought about maybe adopting some day. If I were to have kids that is the route I would go. But being honest with myself, I would not make a good parent. And I really don't want kids, at least not at this point in my life. And I can't really imagine my mind changing, though certainly it could.

No and no. I am an old and I've never wanted them, for many reasons.

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I don't have any and realistically, I don't think I want any. It's nice to think about having kids, but I'm pretty sure the reality is completely different than the idle fantasy version, and much more intense, and not something I'm particularly suited for. Also, I would have real concerns about passing on my mental health issues to any hypothetical children.

how about no?

No and no. Give me kitties instead plz.

Don't have kids, no, and I'm neutral on wanting them in the future. If it happens someday, okay, if not, that's fine, too.

No and no. It's not that I don't think I could be a good parent, I just don't want to be a parent.

Sort of. I know my partner wants kids some day and I have days where I get broody and think "kids, yep, definitely want one of those" but then realise that I can barely look after myself and would most likely be a terrible mother.

Nah. I like kids well enough, but I prefer being able to choose when I want to be responsible for living beings aside from myself and my cactus.

No, I have no kids.

idk. For most of my life I didn't want them at all. But now I think I do? I don't know if I'd be a good parent, though.

Yes, I want some, but I’ve only ever even been kissed on dares back in high school, and I’m in my mid thirties. I own a house and have a job with benefits, so occasionally I think of adopting, but I don’t know if I could do the single parent thing, since I don’t have friends or family to help out.

One daughter. And no, i did not want kids, ever. I love my daughter more than anyone on the planet, but if the SO hadn't basically said 'this or divorce', or if i'd been single, i'd never have had her.

I don't regret her, but i didn't long for a kid or anything. And she's the bomb, so - yay, it worked out!

She doesn't want kids at all, wishes she could get a hysterectomy, and i'm 100 percent with that. I've no interest in being a grandma.

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I don't have any and I don't want any. I do like kids, but I know I wouldn't be a good parent. I'm too lazy and selfish and my finances aren't in the best state.

I'd like some. I want to get married, too, but zero luck in that department :/ I'm so fucking lonely, gdi.

No, and no. I mean, I might regret it one day, sure, but I don't really like kids under 10 and that seems like an awful long time to invest in doing something you hate.

No.

No.

Not at the moment. I've considered adopting in the future but that's going to be after I get some serious therapy for my own issue. Therapy far away from my parents' ability to influence anything.

Until then I'm happy being the 'fun aunt' for any kids my sisters may have.

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No and hell no. Aside from the fact that I couldn't have them even before my hysterectomy, I'm disabled to the point that there's no way I could physically or emotionally handle raising children from infancy. Plus, I just don't like being around children under 6. They're loud, high-pitched, messy, usually sticky and always leaking out of at least one orifice. I guess it's possible that I might be willing to adopt an older child one day, assuming I ever achieve financial stability and find a nice woman with low enough standards to want to marry me, but the likelihood of either of those things happening is pretty slim.

Nope. Definitely not equipped in the emotional or psychological areas, due to an abusive upbringing. A kid deserves much better.

No, don't have any of my own. Other than my "tumblr kids," who I worry about a lot but don't actually have to feed.

Sure, I can take yours off your hands.

Wait, was that not the question?

I don't have sex and I'm barren anyway.

I kind of would like one, maybe two kids at most. But I'm 30, asexual, aromantic, dealing with anxiety and depression that have been low-level debilitating for my entire adult life, and I'm highly unlikely to end up with a lucrative job or an inheretance, so...sadly, I don't think I'll be having kids.

In another life where I wasn't ace/aro, I think I might go for it. In another life where I didn't have severe anxiety and depression and where I had a good, stable income, I think I might go for it. In another life where I could have kids when I was 55, I think I might have my shit together enough by then, maybe I'd go for it. But at things are, no, probably not.

Not currently a mom, but I definitely want a kid or two. I want kids more than I want to be married. I'm also gay, so that throw's a wrench in it, but I see myself one day waltzing into a sperm clinic and doing it solo.

No. As for wanting them: not really, but I'm not against it, either. I'm single and my job would make it very difficult to have a kid on my own (I don't make enough and I travel a lot). I love my job/field and I don't want kids badly enough to re-organize my life in an attempt to put myself in a place where I could do it alone (which I'm not sure I'd actually want to do, even if I were in a better place for that). If I paired off with someone and it would be possible in terms of money and schedules, then I would not be opposed, but it's still not something I would do on a whim. I'm 38, so it's not like I have a huge amount of time left and might not want to have natural-born children at this point, anyway.

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