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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-12-14 05:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #3998 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3998 ⌋

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Re: Would you abort if you knew your kid would have a severe developmental disability?

[personal profile] soldatsasha 2017-12-15 06:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah I guess I'm "lucky" in that my physical and mental problems aren't genetic, at least as far as I know. But maybe the depression or the anxiety is? Those things can be treated and managed, I wouldn't not have a kid just bc they might be depressed. But more serious stuff? Hell no.

I spent a good portion of my life without healthcare, what if my kid ends up in the same boat? Or what if they simply are too mentally ill to manage their symptoms? Or physically ill? And there's a good chance that everyone will end up with some serious health problem eventually, so when you start out with a problem then you're just even more fucked when those other problems inevitably arrive and now you have to try and manage multiple disabilities or illnesses. Shit's fucked.