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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-01-14 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #4029 ]


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Re: Related to above thread

[personal profile] comma_chameleon 2018-01-15 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
34. And same as anon above, despite being a fully functional 'full time job/live on my own' adult, I don't really feel that old. Maybe because I have no interest in marriage/kids and that's the stage a lot of my co-workers are at?

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(Anonymous) 2018-01-15 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
32, and I feel the exact same. Like, I have a job and live on my own and take care of myself so I know I'm technically an adult but I just don't really feel like one.

There's this "you're not a REAL adult if you're not married with kids" sort of vibe in the culture where I live, so I don't know if it's because of that or what. But those things don't appeal to me at all, and it always kind of boggles my mind that people my age (and younger) are married and have kids because I mentally feel like it's too young for those things.
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[personal profile] bur 2018-01-15 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
34 and likewise. I live with my mom, but I've got a solid middle class income on my own so I have the option to move out if I want. So I've got the career, I've got the assets, I can cook better than most of my friends, and I do my own taxes, and it's... well, you know the drill. Not a real adult without a spouse and kids.

But that's fine. I'm confident in what I like and what I want and ain't no one gonna make me live the way they want me to.

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(Anonymous) 2018-01-15 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe because I have no interest in marriage/kids and that's the stage a lot of my co-workers are at?

For me I think this is about 60% of it. The other 40% is that everyone talks to me like I'm about 20, and I conversely always think people my age are actually almost 40, which makes them seem, at least by appearances, a lot older/more "adult" than me.

This might be a factor for you as well, since going by your picture above, I wouldn't say you look 34.