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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-01-26 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #4041 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4041 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; linked for illustrated? nudity / OP warned for NSFW]


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11. [SPOILER for Stranger Things, season 2]



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12. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault]



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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #578.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Yes.

Like, is your position that going back to someone's place entails consenting to sex?

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
Culturally, yes. One night stands? Netflix and chill? Ever heard of those? Want to come up for coffee? This is something that most adult in the Western world know. She'd DEFINITELY know this after getting eaten out by him and not being bothered by it.

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think any of those actually should be considered a substitute for communication and consent, even if our culture sometimes treats them that way. I think that's the actual valid point people are trying to make around the story.

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
Hey now, we never reaches a consensus as to whether "Netflix and chill" means "have sex" or literally watch movies and chill out.

Besides, everyone knows the proper euphemism is "Would you like to come up and see my etchings?"

[personal profile] cbrachyrhynchos 2018-01-27 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
Granted most of my fucking happened in a previous sexual revolution (the 1990s), but going to someone's room usually meant private conversation, a drink, and optional consensual making out and noodling around, not a jump to fucking.

[personal profile] cbrachyrhynchos 2018-01-27 03:22 am (UTC)(link)
I'm tempted to snark about straight people being bad in bed, but I do know that the fine art of making out and hanging out hasn't been completely lost.

(Not that I'd date straight people again.)

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't know "come in for coffee" wasn't supposed to mean literally having coffee until I was well into adulthood.

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Same. During my late teens, someone said they had a "coffee buddy", on my blank look, they expanded, "y'know, as in 'do you want to come in for a coffee?'" and for several minutes I was under the impression that the two of them were just really into coffee - it was just as Starbucks started to pop up in my town and coffee was becoming more than a spoonful of instant and hot water.

I twigged an embarrassing amount of minutes later.