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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-01-26 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #4041 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4041 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; linked for illustrated? nudity / OP warned for NSFW]


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11. [SPOILER for Stranger Things, season 2]



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12. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault]



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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #578.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
At the same time, though, I think a lot of people would ask why we should take it as normal and expected that someone in Ansari's position didn't try to affirmatively establish consent, or whether that's something that we should challenge and criticize.

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 08:54 am (UTC)(link)
Because women are usually not the brain dead idiots you try to portray them as and can speak up for themselves if someone does something they don't like. Stop making women appear like little dumb trained monkeys who can't act outside of some alleged conditioning.
It's like expecting someone to ask after every ingredient you might have allergies for before serving you food and hoping they got them all so you don't eat something that might hurt you instead of you just telling them yourself.

SA

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 06:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure he thought he DID affirmatively establish consent. They were just speaking in different euphemisms.

Him: Want to come up to my place [and fuck]?

Her: Want to come up to my place [and have a drink while we figure out if we want to take this any further]?

The problem lies in the miscommunication.