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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-01-26 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #4041 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4041 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; linked for illustrated? nudity / OP warned for NSFW]


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11. [SPOILER for Stranger Things, season 2]



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12. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault]



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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #578.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 09:28 am (UTC)(link)
Women have been conditioned to not rock the boat and be polite, which leads to trying to give non-confrontational and non-verbal signals that men won't pick up on because 'well, she didn't actually say no.' Dudes, body language is a thing.

NAYRT, but thiiiisss.

It will never fail to amaze me (and piss me the fuck off) how many men out there will take anything short of outright hostility as women saying "keep trying." I mean there are a lot of nonverbal signals that are pretty obvious and by all rights should be enough, but even beyond that, I've had guys take actual verbal rejections as "keep trying" as well. I mean, it's too the point where, for quite a few guys, there is no middle ground at all between "You didn't sound like you really meant that rejection so I'm gonna keep trying," and "Calm down, bitch, I was just flirting."

It would be hilarious if it weren't so awful.

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 11:53 am (UTC)(link)
Oh for fuck's sake... stop pretending that the "all women want jerks" and "tell them no but secretly mean yes" and "playing hard to get" are not massive parts of "flirt-culture" that get propagated by women themselves all the fucking time.

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Because it's ALL DA WIMMINZ FAULTS WAAAAH

They're just LEADING GUYS ON ALL THE TIME

There's a difference between playfully flirting (which has matching body language, ffs) and actually being uncomfortable (completely different bod language)

(Anonymous) 2018-01-27 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't tell if you're too dumb to understand the point or if you're doing it on purpose - in any case, stop throwing a tantrum.