[ SECRET POST #4042 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4042 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Louisa May Alcott, Eight Cousins]


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03.
[Jojo's Bizarre Adventure]


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04.
[Mickey Rourke (and Kim Basinger even though the secret's not about her)]


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05.
[Tommy Wiseau and Greg Sestero]


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06.
[Welcome to the Ballroom]


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07.
[Crazy Ex Girlfriend]











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 44 secrets from Secret Submission Post #579.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

In all fairness, if one waited until they were completely financially stable and had the time and money to have kids... there's a good chance they'd already be too old to have them, at least biologically.

Having kids is a big decision and shouldn't be taken lightly, but it's not a bad thing to want or have kids responsibly. Anyway, there's a difference between having a kid at 19 when you work part time at a gas station, and at 32 when you still struggle to make ends meet at work but at least have a career and a plan for the future.

[(Anonymous)]

I know a guy who is financially stable. Had a great job, house, marriage. Lost it all a year after finally having a kid. The pressure of having a kid made him snap. His wife left him and now he's being shuffled back and forth between a mental hospital and a homeless shelter. Having money is only one small aspect of being able to raise kids. Having a kids seems to be pretty terrible in general (lots of people reporting depression or marriage strain, or becoming abusive or a list of other things) no matter how put together your life is.

[(Anonymous)]

Okay? That sucks, but that example really isn't the norm. My sister and her husband just had kids in their late twenties. They struggle to make ends meet and with babies, there are lots of sleepless nights, but they are doing great and happier than ever. Kids are a lot of responsibility, but most people don't completely snap from the pressure of it.

[(Anonymous)]

That's a pretty extreme example.