We spent almost that much. But not on dresses or hair or cars or any of the big ticket items. We hired somewhere for the weekend and had everyone we loved there for essentially a massive holiday/sleep over/party. It was the best day of our lives for sure and I have no regrets in spending as much as we did because to be married and celebrate with everyone I hold dear was just wonderful. Ninety friends and family and talking and dancing and singing. :) :) :)

On my death bed I certainly won't be mourning the money.