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fandomsecrets2018-02-28 06:32 pm
[ SECRET POST #4074 ]
⌈ Secret Post #4074 ⌋
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Re: How to handle noise when you can't?
(Anonymous) 2018-03-01 12:52 pm (UTC)(link)I don't know what is more hilarious, the tabs you're keeping on an internet stranger's life, or the full weight you're going after her with in a reply to a post she didn't even make.
For the record, I'm not saying those aren't valid points if true, but wowie wow wow. So people don't get to complain and have feelings about unexpected shit now? So nice of you to assume your situation is the same as everyone else's, and that the only choices in life include chasing a dream or being partly independent. But hey, good for you, I guess.
Re: How to handle noise when you can't?
(Anonymous) 2018-03-01 01:47 pm (UTC)(link)Philstar posts frequently enough about her issues with her parents (though it's rarely presented as that, I notice) that as an internet stranger, I'm not particularly interested in keeping tabs but I'm familiar with the situation. It's memorable because it's so sad and dysfunctional and ayrt might be a little harsh, but they're not entirely wrong.
People absolutely do get to complain and have feelings about stuff here on the gc. And other people get to respond about those complaints and feelings. Personally, I sympathize and hope philstar can escape that house soon, because it sounds emotionally draining and awful. Her parents might not be straight up physically abusive, but their resentment, lack of support and the general shittiness of tretaing her like a second class citizen would ensure that if I were her, I'd never speak to them again once I gained my own independence.