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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-04-19 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #4124 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4124 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Digimon]


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[Black Lightning]


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(Rahul Kohli who plays Dr. Ravi Chakrabarti from iZombie)


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[Ruby Tandoh from The Great British Bake Off series 4]


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[A Wrinkle in Time]


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(Anonymous) 2018-04-20 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
However, I view it as a level of asexuality where everything is pretty on par with the main idea of sexuality except you MIGHT become sexually attracted to a person if you've known them a long time.


Look, if you're not having sex now, but you would if you just met the right person, then you're not any level of asexual. You're just celibate and cool with it, which is a perfectly okay thing to be.

(Anonymous) 2018-04-23 02:59 pm (UTC)(link)
That's not how it works. And asexuality is a spectrum, like sexuality in general. Demisexuality isn't not banging people out of politeness or cultural mores, it's when you do not feel sexual attraction until you may or may not develop sexual attraction for a particular person you have become close to. Not "I'll find the right person and bang them" but "I have never before felt the urge to bang someone until I spent significant nonsexual bonding time with this person."