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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-04-24 07:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #4129 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4129 ⌋

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People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

(Anonymous) 2018-04-25 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Do your kinks have a place in your sex life, or are there strictly for fandom only?

Re: People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

(Anonymous) 2018-04-25 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
No, because I don't have any irl relationships and kink I'm into aren't scientifically possible.

+1

(Anonymous) 2018-04-25 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
I would love to have the problem of "he just can't satisfy me like a tentacle monster can"
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Re: People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

[personal profile] tabaqui 2018-04-25 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
Fandom only, because a) not something most people would ever want to do, and b) I've come to the conclusion that i'm near-as-damn-it asexual, or at the very least, just fucking tired of sex and not remotely interested in doing it anymore. Also, divorced, so....

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Re: People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

[personal profile] philstar22 2018-04-25 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
No. Even if I had IRL relationships, my more extreme kinks are fiction only. They are more extreme versions of things I like tamer versions of in real life often. But no, they'd not influence my real life. Well, unless mild femdom would be a problem IRL. I hope not, but you never know.
Edited 2018-04-25 01:32 (UTC)

Re: People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

(Anonymous) 2018-04-25 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
Pretty much for fandom only. IRL I'm quite vanilla.

Re: People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

(Anonymous) 2018-04-25 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
Same TBH.
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Re: People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

[personal profile] soldatsasha 2018-04-25 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
Unless aliens invade most of my extreme kinks don't really work well irl. But some of the more realistic stuff absolutely makes its way into my real life sexual relationships in some fashion or other.

Re: People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

(Anonymous) 2018-04-25 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Same here. Except that my partner pulls a decent "click purr" like a Yautja.
ai: eirika dressed for the winter holding sieglinde in her arms (whew.)

[personal profile] ai 2018-04-25 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
We both enjoy writing so we just roleplay/write fanfiction involving our kinks and that's as far as it goes. Some of the tamer and more possible ones slip out IRL, other than that though... shrugs. It's hard when most of your kinks involve specific characters and their abilities.
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Re: People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

[personal profile] dancing_serpent 2018-04-25 03:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Fandom only. There's no sex in my life, and I'm probably going to stay a virgin forever.

Re: People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

(Anonymous) 2018-04-25 04:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Depends on how you define extreme, but if it's the off-the-wall, either physically impossible or horrifically dangerous IRL stuff, it's fandom only.

Re: People with the more extreme kinks, does it influence your IRL relationships?

(Anonymous) 2018-04-25 06:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty vanilla in RL. I've largely come to the conclusion that the kind of subbing I'm into isn't exactly sane for me, and I've largely given up on finding a partner who is a safe and sane top.