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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-04-25 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #4130 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4130 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Captain Jean-Luc Picard, Star Trek: The Next Generation]



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[Lee Pace]


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[Spyro Reignited Trilogy]


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[How I Met Your Mother]









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Re: How do I make my relatives feel better about me being the favorite aunt?

(Anonymous) 2018-04-26 05:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Let the kid be a kid, let the kid like you, keep being nice to the kid.
But since adult egos can be fragile little things, just make a few efforts to include the others in playtime. Like, I am the favourite aunt of my niece. So, when my other sister is around, I make sure she doesn't feel left out by saying things like "Oh, WOW, yeah, that IS a lovely drawing, thank you! Let's make one for Aunt B!" or "Yes, I can read you a story, but I'm very tired, so Aunt B will read you the other one," type of thing.

And of course, goes without saying, I never EVER EVER show the other kids that the favouritism is mutual. Always equal play time, always equal presents, always sharing.

So yeah, having a kid stamp of approval is awesome! Enjoy it! Also be an awesome sister and daughter by sharing all the joy.