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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-05-23 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #4158 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4158 ⌋

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Re: Huh.

(Anonymous) 2018-05-24 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
I can speak from a little personal experience - when you've seen someone really fuck up their life and possibly their family's lives via their poor life choices, it's really easy to resent the hell out of that person for never getting help or learning to do better. If you've never been in that position, I imagine it's harder to see that... but I envy your good fortune.

Sure, OP dislikes the crushes. But you have to consider the context, which OP also provides.

Re: Huh.

(Anonymous) 2018-05-24 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
I understand where you're coming from when you read the secret. I'm not even saying you're wrong. But I also think that the way that most people are reading it is very reasonable, even if you don't agree with it.

At the beginning of this thread, you said that it was reading comprehension fail (or that people want to know "what gets their elders off in the name of tolerance"). That's the part that I really disagree with you on. The reason people think that OP is judgy isn't because of reading comprehension fail, it's because OP called their MIL a pathetic piece of shit.

Re: Huh.

(Anonymous) 2018-05-24 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
/shrug We agree to disagree. I think someone who makes terrible life choices and makes their family suffer for it, then rubs salt in the wound by fangirling over douchebags similar to the IRL douchebags that caused so many problems in front of someone who doesn't want to hear any of this is an asshole, and I can completely understand why OP would be furious.

I said reading comprehension fail because so many people read the secret and think that OP is against fandom in general or older people in fandom or wants to dictate who their MIL fangirls over. I think that's a pretty significant misread of the secret text.