[ SECRET POST #4169 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4169 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Eugene from Buzzfeed)


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[Patrick J. Adams, Suits]


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[Jack Black]


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[Despicable Me]


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[The Elsie Dinsmore series]


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[voltron]











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Comments

Re: I know this is late but I'm worried/upset & don't know who else to ask...

[(Anonymous)]

Hmmm. As someone not in your shoes....I would say to let it rock. Echoing the anon above, does he have a history of lying to you or being shady? Because he didn't deny his actions and told you the truth. Also, has he been friends with the guy longer than he's been with you? Because their relationship might be quite different. Would brothers in your culture hold hands?

These things said, I can see why you're concerned. Has he given you any other inclination that he is in fact into the friend?

I occasionally joke about certain friends being my romantic partner, but we're only friends, and she has a BF. I have other friends I am more tactile with. With my own best friend I do neither of these things because our relationship and personalities/preferences don't mesh that way.

Some guys I know joke around about being together, but it's precisely that, because they're best friends (one has a GF).

You'll have to figure out what's really bothering you and if it's worth confronting him, ending it, or taking your BF at his word.

Good luck, anon.

Re: I know this is late but I'm worried/upset & don't know who else to ask...

[(Anonymous)]

We're in the US so brothers wouldn't hold hands either.

And no, we've been together longer than he's known his friend. I've never gotten a serious indication that he likes him other than our friends joking around but to me holding hands has always been something reserved for SOs so this is throwing me off.

I don't know, I guess I just need to do some thinking about this situation and figure out what I can live with and what I can't.