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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-06-03 03:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #4169 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4169 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Eugene from Buzzfeed)


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[Patrick J. Adams, Suits]


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[Jack Black]


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[Despicable Me]


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[The Elsie Dinsmore series]


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[voltron]











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Re: I know this is late but I'm worried/upset & don't know who else to ask...

(Anonymous) 2018-06-04 05:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Were they caressing each other's thumbs, or perhaps did one of them place a gentle kiss into the other's palm?

If not, then you are probably overreacting. I don't know your boyfriend or his friends well enough to judge if this is strange behavior for them. I do know that, generally speaking, unless one is under the age of 15 or part of a deeply religious, conservative community, hand-holding on its own isn't indicative of romance, let alone cheating.

However, it's abundantly clear that you don't trust your boyfriend, so you should break up with him. Go find a guy who won't have physical contact with anyone but you and let this poor dude hang out with people who actually care for and respect him.

Re: I know this is late but I'm worried/upset & don't know who else to ask...

(Anonymous) 2018-06-04 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Go find a guy who won't have physical contact with anyone but you

Am I in bizarro land? I feel like "not having physical contact with anyone but your SO" is a pretty standard expectation of being in a relationship, not some crazy, unreasonable request.

Re: I know this is late but I'm worried/upset & don't know who else to ask...

(Anonymous) 2018-06-04 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Apparently, you do live in bizarro land because I'm very sure it's entirely unnatural and creepy to expect your partner to never ever touch another person in any way after you're a couple. Creepy and controlling.

da

(Anonymous) 2018-06-04 10:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Clearly OP is talking about the hand holding (and tbh, when I see two guys holding hands while walking through the mall or something, I assume they're in love and not platonic friends...not that I'm saying this is the case with the BF) and other forms of romantic touch. If BF and friend were seen giving each other a high five or hugging, OP would probably not be posting about it.