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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-06-22 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #4188 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4188 ⌋

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11. [WARNING for discussion of suicide]



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(Anonymous) 2018-06-23 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
No, see you're confusing two very different things--there's situational depression, which isn't the real deal--it's a misnomer. This is something that can be more or less fixed by changing the circumstances. Then there's the actual disease, which is a mental illness that lies and fucks you up no matter what your objective material situation is.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-23 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Situational depression hurts just as much and can't always be fixed. Any type of depression can kill.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-23 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
Situational depression is not actual depression, though. Real, legitimate depression is a mental illness that can't be improved just by changing things in your life. You could have objectively the greatest life in the world and still be suffering from clinical depression because clinical depression has no bearing on how awful or how great your life is as a whole.

With situational depression, if you fix the things in that person's life that are causing the situational depression, it will go away. It generally doesn't need medication to help it and often medication either won't do anything or will make it worse, since the problem isn't in your brain. If anything, talk therapy is more useful in dealing with it.

But with actual, clinical depression, making changes to your life won't do anything because that's not the root of the problem. That's why actual depression often responds to medication-- because it's a mental illness. Just talking to someone typically isn't enough to help, either.

So sure, money could help some people who have situational depression, but it won't do anything to help people who have clinical depression and are already taking steps to treat it.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-23 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
Talk therapy doesn't do shit. I know because I've been in it for ages.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-23 05:30 am (UTC)(link)
It didn't work for me either, but it does for some people.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-23 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
It often doesn't if you have chemical caused-by-your-brain depression. That usually takes meds to help rebalance your brain chemistry that's messed up.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2018-06-23 05:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I have mostly situational depression, probably a tiny bit of chemical depression. Everything always ends up shitty no matter what I do or don't do. CBT therapy is mostly about a goalsheet and mindfulness. I got fucking sick and tired of that crap. Also: my therapists were third year residents at a behavioral health clinic in a hospital, always younger than me. I'm on a low-cost health insurance so that's probably the best help it is going to get for me, mental health-wise. Social workers, mental health counsellors, therapists- it's all the same shit. Thumbs down.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-23 07:28 am (UTC)(link)
I've been in it for ages with...five? different therapists now, and having a good one (or just one that clicks with you better) makes a HUGE difference. talk therapy + meds is better than either one alone for me, but talk therapy is definitely not nothing.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-23 02:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, it wa an annoying waste of time for me too. Meds got me out of my crisis and talking was something I did just to check the boxes I had to in order to get the proper treatment.