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fandomsecrets2018-06-30 03:55 pm
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(Anonymous) 2018-07-01 05:24 am (UTC)(link)They're right though.
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(Anonymous) 2018-07-01 10:22 am (UTC)(link)you can't just deny what they actually wrote only to make your point. nonny you agreed with is not on your side
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(Anonymous) 2018-07-01 10:25 am (UTC)(link)christ
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(Anonymous) 2018-07-01 05:32 pm (UTC)(link)They said that someone is making a choice that "reflects poorly on women as a whole" and is shitty. To me, that is equivalent to saying that it's anti-feminist. I'm open to listening if you don't think that's fair.
They said femsub is so utterly normalized and accepted that the insidious notion that women are all sexual submissives who want to be raped or dominated is incredibly popular among a loooooot of men and actively harmful for many women who don't like that sort of thing. The popularity of abusive drek like 50SOG among women does not help dissuade this, in fact I often see it brought up as an example that all women like this type of shit. You can't deny this is a thing that happens.
I'm not denying that it happens. I'm saying that it's not the fault of women who are into femsub, and it's wrong to blame it on those women. Blame it on the people who believe that women are all sexual submissives and who say that 50SOG proves this, not the people who like 50SOG.