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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-07-01 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #4197 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4197 ⌋

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Re: Romance thread

(Anonymous) 2018-07-02 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly, I think you'd find online dating the exact opposite of what you'd expect. Download Tinder and give it a try - there's so many people on there that I think you'll find people who like your size or are otherwise ambivalent about the issue either way. And Tinder is easy because it really does protect your feelings. You just go through swiping left or right on people, and you only get notified if someone came across your profile and swiped right for "Like". Then you guys can choose to exchange messages or not. The final step is actually meeting, but there's no obligation to go that far. And if you meet and have a disaster date, no worries, Tinder is a pool of anonymity and bad dates make for hilarious stories to share with friends, haha.
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Re: Romance thread

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2018-07-02 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
you obviously did not have the terrible experiences I did. they were not funny.

Re: Romance thread

(Anonymous) 2018-07-02 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
Okay? Bad experiences aren't exclusive to online dating or have anything at all to do with it.

Re: Romance thread

(Anonymous) 2018-07-02 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
And Tinder is easy because it really does protect your feelings. You just go through swiping left or right on people, and you only get notified if someone came across your profile and swiped right for "Like".

NAYRT obviously but please explain to me how my feelings are going to be protected and not hurt when no one matches with me

Re: Romance thread

(Anonymous) 2018-07-02 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
because you have no idea if the person you swiped right for "didn't like you" or simply didn't encounter your profile. No one knows who likes who unless it's mutual.

Re: Romance thread

(Anonymous) 2018-07-02 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
^which is, to add, way more than you would get IRL or in most dating sites when you can instantly message whoever you want.

Re: Romance thread

(Anonymous) 2018-07-02 05:40 am (UTC)(link)
But that principle stops working when no one swipes right.