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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-07-05 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #4201 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4201 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Sophie Turner, from Game of Thrones]


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(Hindustan Times)


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[Philip Quast in "Ultraviolet"]


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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2018-07-06 08:08 pm (UTC)(link)
First point: I think there's a difference between being aware that some people might be judged by society and so defending their decision to make conservative choices, and being someone who actively perpetuates society's judging oneself. The commenters seem to me to fall under the category of "perpetuating society's judging" and not "defending their decision to make conservative choices" (their conservative choices to side-eye a random woman's wedding guest dress?? how does that help you, an unprivileged person, navigate a sexist society??).

Second point: It seems like you actually don't want to talk about being judged by society (the topic of your first point) and instead want to talk about how important it is to show respect for one's friends (the wedding couple) on their special day. I agree that's important. I think a bunch of strangers on the internet speculating whether Rose Leslie and Kit Harington were offended by Sophie Turner's outfit is just nosy internet concern trolling. Rose and Kit are adults perfectly capable of dealing with a guest's inappropriate or disappointing wear -- why do people feel the need to get outraged on their behalf?

(Anonymous) 2018-07-06 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
It’s almost like this conversation has evolved or something. And that there might be multiple nuances and components to it. And that it’s taking place on an anonymous entertainment/fan site. And that people commonly use a public event, like a celeb wedding, to talk about their own experiences and opinions outside of the realm of that specific event. Or all of the above. Hmmm.
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[personal profile] kaffy_r 2018-07-07 07:13 pm (UTC)(link)
*applause*

It's kind of cool; it's certainly made me think harder than I normally do while on Teh Intarwebz