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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-07-17 09:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #4213 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4213 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2018-07-18 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
you sound like a space alien

there's tons of stuff in fandom I don't like that doesn't piss me off, because none of the three reasons I mentioned apply. I'm not MAKING myself mad about ABO, but I am bitter because its prevalence has ruined my ability to enjoy several things I DO like, and I still can't get away from it without, like...never searching for porn in big fandoms again.

Which I have mostly stopped doing, actually. But it still pops up, like on my tumblr dash because I'm following an author who's other stuff I like, and I am reminded of my bitterness. I cannot express to you how completely I am not expending deliberate energy "being angry" or having a hate-dom or whatever. I scroll. I scroll and scroll and scroll and eventually leave fandoms for other fandoms where I have to scroll less, and then scroll there too.

I'm not saying anyone else should stop liking what they like or not be allowed to enjoy it. But damn I'd love if everyone got over this meme of "literally ever being angry because you can't stand a nigh unavoidable popular thing is ~your own fault~ and ~why do it to yourself~." It's super condescending and also completely misses the point.

(Anonymous) 2018-07-18 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt but seriously, chill. The only one being condescending here is you.

(Anonymous) 2018-07-18 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
Lmao, anon above you wrote a good and concise response about how their fandoms are becoming increasingly unenjoyable, and you don't give a shit so long as the beauty of a/b/o is not tarnished. Perhaps human decency is only restricted to alphas and betas genders, because you don't seem to have it.

(Anonymous) 2018-07-18 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
ooookay, same anon. You called the ayrt "a space alien" right off the bat and said they were "super condescending" when they suggested maybe it's okay that people like things they don't like. And with this response, sorry, you're not proving any points here besides screeching a/b/o haters are obnoxious.

(Anonymous) 2018-07-18 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not the anon you're replying to, I also enjoy alpha/omega stuff, but seriously fuck off with not allowing people to say "no". Different stuff for different folks.

(Anonymous) 2018-07-18 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
except... literally no one said no one is allowed to say "no". literally no one. the original anon was objecting to the "a/b/o needs to die" because that implies no one should like it, and OP is putting a lot of effort into being angry about something she doesn't have to like.

(Anonymous) 2018-07-18 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
How is name-calling and blaming others for liking stuff she doesn't like a "good and concise response"? Baffled.

(Anonymous) 2018-07-18 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
This is me. Also it's not like the anger is actually ANGER, if that makes sense. It's just really bitter disappointment that comes across as anger in plain text.