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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-07-24 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #4220 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4220 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2018-07-25 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
maybe he just...doesn't want to flash his private family life all over the news and the internet? like, it's not a binary where either someone loudly blares the news of their impending child to the world OR they don't want it and hate that they/their partner fell pregnant.

(Anonymous) 2018-07-25 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Sure, it could be that too. I'm just pointing out we don't know so it's a little early to start congratulating proud parents.

I get that the reaction to OP's secret here is going to be, well, a reaction, and swing wildly in the opposite direction to OP's sentiment, but stuff like "it's 2018, it's reasonable to assume nobody has unwanted children any more, congrats to the parents on the basis of rumors that they might be having a kid" is also going a bit far in the opposite direction imo

(Anonymous) 2018-07-25 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
Well, if they're not having a kid, then obviously there's no problem

(Anonymous) 2018-07-25 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Right, but this whole entire thread is being discussed on the chance that they might...? I don't understand what you mean by this.

(Anonymous) 2018-07-25 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
k but it's weird that people here are automatically thinking that no public profession of joy and pride probably = unwanted

(Anonymous) 2018-07-25 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not though?

I said, literally, "Does he WANT kids?" That was a question, emphasizing a possibility exists that he may or may not want children. Not an insistence that they were unwanted.

I hope if the child exists, it is wanted! All children should be. :)

SA

(Anonymous) 2018-07-25 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I see what you might be construing as that. My comment about it being a rumor instead of confirmed publicly was a comment responding to the anon saying that "if not told otherwise, we can assume people want the kid," trying to point out that a lack of public comment could go either way.