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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-08-16 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #4243 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4243 ⌋

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Re: What kind of parents did you have?

(Anonymous) 2018-08-17 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
Both of them grew up in very large, very poor single parent households. She grew up without a mother, he grew up without a father. Oddly, they were utterly suited for each other, and utterly unsuited to be parents.

My mother especially never got out of the need to be mothered, which meant that my childhood was all about making her happy by validating her opinions and her view of reality. ~ Add to this that everything that went wrong or upset her was my fault, and... yeah. I moved 500 miles away as soon as I was able, preferring to live alone in a big city than spend one more moment there. I've struggled for my entire adult life to overcome the shame and guilt I feel about expressing my own opinions on things, let alone my desires.