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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-08-20 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #4247 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4247 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2018-08-21 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Everybody expects everybody else to read their mind

(Anonymous) 2018-08-21 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
No, we expect you to ask first. That is the opposite of expecting mind reading, for fuck's sake.

(Anonymous) 2018-08-21 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
not making a gender-specific point

I think there are a lot of people - across all genders - for whom open, frank conversation, about consent or anything else, is either difficult to do or unappealing/unpleasant

and it's a reality that we probably shouldn't just ignore

(Anonymous) 2018-08-21 06:30 am (UTC)(link)
Okay but conversations don’t have to be that frank. Just saying like “are you cool with this, cause we can just chill if you’d rather not do anything” is not really a deep hard to have conversation but gets the job done.