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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-09-11 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #4269 ]


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Re: What kind of romances do you want to see more of?

(Anonymous) 2018-09-12 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt but as a lesbian myself - I agree with your last point, I think the only scary thing about dating a straight person would be questioning whether they are really attracted to you. I feel like with guys, arousal is more external (for obvious reasons) so it might be a little different. But for me, I'd question if a female partner really was into me, or was just doing it for the experience or to brag about it for weird feminist cred. Plus the fear that goes with it of "will they want to stay with me long term or is this just a phase/do they ultimately want to end up with the opposite sex."

"Queer identity" means nothing to me though. I personally have zero interest in Pride stuff or the "community" of LGBT beyond what it means for social progress. I don't feel any more connected on a human level with people who have similar sexual interests as me. It's not my identity at all. Beyond sexual attraction and romantic commitment, queerness is a moot point for me.